How Online Bullies Operate: Tactics and Red Flags

Online bullies wield power from behind screens, and in 2025, their tactics are evolving. Pew Research Center reports 67% of U.S. teens face some form of cyberbullying on social media. Knowing their strategies helps families fight back.
Bullies use name-calling in DMs, spread rumors via viral posts, or exclude kids from group chats. On TikTok, “challenges” can mask harassment, pressuring participation. Doxxing—sharing personal info like addresses—escalates to real-world fear. AI deepfakes, faking scandals, are a growing 2025 threat. Girls face body-shaming; boys, attacks on masculinity.
Red flags include sudden friend drops, anonymous reports, or a child’s defensive device use. Bullies often rally peers to amplify attacks, creating a hate echo chamber. The Cyberbullying Research Center notes bullies act for power, jealousy, or boredom, but victims face lasting anxiety.
Parents, teach kids to screenshot evidence, block bullies, and avoid retaliation. Monitor for secrecy or distress. ConnectSafely offers guides on bully tactics and reporting (https://www.connectsafely.org/). Report abuse to platforms immediately—Meta and TikTok have dedicated teams.
The Cyber Project equips families with knowledge. By decoding bully moves, we disarm their power and protect kids’ digital peace. Start today—awareness is the shield.