A Growing Epidemic

In today’s hyper-connected world, where kids spend hours scrolling through social media, cyberbullying has become an invisible epidemic lurking behind every screen. As of 2025, over 26% of American teenagers have experienced cyberbullying in the past 30 days alone, a figure that’s steadily climbing with the rise of new apps and AI-driven interactions. But what exactly is cyberbullying, and how can parents and kids spot it before it escalates?
Cyberbullying is the willful and repeated harm inflicted through digital devices, including smartphones, computers, and social platforms. Unlike traditional bullying, it doesn’t stop at the school bell—it’s 24/7, anonymous, and can reach a global audience in seconds. Common forms include sending threatening messages, spreading rumors via posts or shares, creating fake profiles to humiliate someone, or sharing embarrassing photos without consent. In 2025, platforms like TikTok and Snapchat are hotspots, with 69% of cyberbullied kids reporting incidents there.
Recognizing the signs is crucial. Victims often withdraw from devices they once loved, showing sudden anxiety around notifications or changes in sleep patterns due to late-night harassment. Academic performance dips, and physical symptoms like headaches or stomachaches emerge from the stress. For instance, a teen might receive a barrage of mean comments on an Instagram story, leading to self-doubt and isolation. Perpetrators, often peers, might justify it as “just joking,” but the impact is real and lasting.
Why is it worsening in 2025? The explosion of AI tools allows bullies to generate deepfake images or automated hate messages, making attacks more sophisticated and harder to trace. Girls aged 15-17 face higher rates at 54%, compared to 44% for boys, often tied to appearance-based shaming. [38] Families are affected too, with parents witnessing their child’s confidence shatter overnight.
At The Cyber Project, we believe knowledge is the first line of defense. Start by monitoring without invading privacy—use family sharing features on devices. Encourage open talks: “If something online bothers you, tell me without fear.” Resources like StopBullying.gov offer free guides on spotting and stopping it early.https://www.stopbullying.gov/ The Cyberbullying Research Center provides parent toolkits with real victim stories to spark discussions.https://cyberbullying.org/
Cyberbullying isn’t inevitable. By understanding its forms and signs, we empower kids to reclaim their digital space. Let’s turn screens into safe havens, one conversation at a time. If you’re dealing with this, reach out—help is just a link away.